No child should ever be left unsupervised with any breed of dog, no matter how big or how small the dog or child may be.

Small children can often be unintentionally cruel or hurtful to a dog and may cause is to react negatively.

Following are some guidelines to assist in a creating and maintaining a happy relationship between both. Please also read our page on Your responsibility as a Bullmastiff owner.

1. Do not allow the child, however small to, tease the dog either physically or verbally. The child who shrieks and leaps incessantly beside a nervous puppy may drive him to snap out in fear as quickly as the child who grabs it's tail or sits on it. If a child is persistent, remove him. Do not even once allow him to continue.

2. Do not let a small child to pick up or carry a puppy. Puppies like babies are afraid of falling. They will often squirm and fight to free themselves. If successful, they may break a leg. (Vet bills are not cheap.) If panicked they may even bite. Remember, in this case, it is not the puppyís fault but yours for allowing the situation to progress to the point where the puppy can no longer cope with it. Encourage the child to get down on the puppies level, ie.,the floor for fun and games. They can play all they like without either one getting hurt and the puppy is free to move away when he has had enough. A child may not realize the fact that he has inadvertently cornered the pup and set in motion a series of instinctive behaviour mechanisms.

3. Do not expect the pup to absorb endless punishment in the form of constant noise or teasing. He will learn to defend himself unless he has some place to go such as a crate, bed, corner, or run where he can go when he does not want to be disturbed. Make certain that everyone understands that he is not to be disturbed there and then to make sure that he is not. He will come back out when he is ready to.

4. Do not leave your dog unattended in the yard with small children no matter how trustworthy you may think your dog is. Although Bullmastiffs enjoy children more so than many other breeds, they are not a miracle dog and must be treated the same as any other large dog when around children. A dog may not mean to hurt a child, yet it usually seems to turn out the other way.

5. Do not buy a dog until you have a fence for him outside where he con be dsafe from teasing by small children, Dog nappers, stray dogs or mishaps on the road. Dogs which are tied-up become defensive, bored and irritably aggressive. A fence is convenient, durable and safe.

6. Enlist the help of your child in the training of the dog. It will increase his sense of self-importance, his concern and knowledge of animal behaviour. If Max wakes up, take him outside right away so he won't make a mistake in the house. You watch, Billy, in case I don't notice, okay?

7. Do insist that neighbourhood children who come to play abide by the same rules that you expect of your own. "Stuart", we don't hit Max with sticks. Here, throw it for him instead. Look haw happy he is now! I think he like's you. If Stuart delivers a sly kick instead, stop him. (A little knowledge of gentle collar control is useful with children, as well as dogs). Put the dog in his run or crate and see to it that Stuart leaves him alone. If Stuart is uncooperative, send him home, nicely but firmly. If you get angry, he will be angry and defiant too. When he learns that he simply cannot play at your house if he continues, he will probably stop if he feels that you basically like him and that it is only his specific action that you dislike. Here again, take two minutes to give the child and the dog something constructive to do. Let the child have the opportunity to receive a warm response from the dog and he may become your staunchest ally. " Hey Mrs Jones! I just saw Max down the street. Someone must have left the gate open.

8. Do teach the dog to sit before he is given food or a treat, and to wait for an okay to take it. The Bullmastiff pup will grow quicker than your toddler. If the sit stay becomes automatic, you will find him sitting before a baby with food, hoping but never touching. Parents of visiting children are less than understanding when your 75 lbs pup grabs for a cookie and their child goes tumbling. Many fears of dogs are traced back to just such an incident. They will not only remember that it was a large dog but also that it was a Bullmastiff. Never allow a small child to take the pup's food or bone as this could create a problem later when the pup has grown into adulthood.

9. Do give your Bullmastiff simple obedience training so that he will be spared random scoldings and confusion. "DOWN and SIT" are pleasant commands to a pup if they are rewarded with a brushing or a tummy rub by their young master.

10. Don't expect the dog to be patient with your child unless you have taught him to be. He will learn not to defend himself, if he realizes that you consistently rescue him before he gets hurt. Conversely you must teach the small child to be patient with the dog. Don't reinforce his fears if he inadvertently takes a tumble by telling him what a big, mean, naughty dog that is. Be matter of fact, pick him up, staunch the blood, and say, "Here, help me teach Max to be more gentle. Help the child learn to cope with the situation, reinforce his confidence with small things that he can handle, and be there to handle a situation that proves to be more that he can control.

11. Do not expose an innocent passer-by to your dogsí protective tendencies. Do not leave your Bullmastiff and your small child outside a store and expect them to take care of each other. Some well-intentioned stranger may be bitten. Even though your dog may do exactly what you wish him to do under different circumstances, he will be the one put down while you face an expensive lawsuit. Never assume that the public understands dog behaviour. The fool who puts his hands inside your car or the boy who poke at the dog through a fence, obviously do not, but you may end up paying the doctors bills.

12. Do increase your childís sense of responsibility and pride of achievement by letting him help as much as he can. Do not expect him to know what to do. Guide him. " Here is Max's dish, Billy, tell him to come. That's it, now tell him to sit. (You help max sit. He is just learning that he must also obey Billy too.) Good, now put the dish down. Tell him okay. There, see how nicely he obeyed you! Billy will leave with the distinct impression that he is the worlds smartest dog trainer and that his dog is the smartest dog on the block.

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